83 Best Hostess Gifts To Say Thank You
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There is countless behind-the-scenes work that goes into planning any successful party, no matter the size. So how do you find the best thank you gifts for friends and relatives who frequently host parties in their homes? Finding a good hostess gift is a balance between picking out a useful party gift idea mixed with a thoughtful thank you.
Instead of bringing a bottle of wine or a bouquet flowers that you picked up last-minute at the local grocery store, use this list of host gift ideas to pick out a unique and personalized gift. Whether it’s a baby shower or a dinner at someone’s home, these are the perfect presents to say thank you for hosting!
Best Hostess Gifts & Thoughtful Thank Yous
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Scented Candle
Nest
Whether it's a housewarming present or for your favorite party host, you can never go wrong with the gift of fragrance. This aromatherapy candle by Nest brings zesty grapefruit together with coriander blossom and lily of the valley to create one complex aroma that is perfect for the season.
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Non-Alcoholic Whiskey Alternative
Ritual Zero Proof
Have you ever craved a spritz but not the after-effects of your favorite adult beverage? These non-alcoholic spirits will be a hit with everyone who comes through your home.
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Maraschino Cherries
Luxardo
I’m not much of a cherry person myself, but these Luxardo cherries are no ordinary fruit. Preserved in syrupy sweet goodness, the cherries will make a perfect after-dinner treat or turn a regular glass of champagne into a celebration.
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Sea Salt Flakes
Maldon
You know that feeling when you’re eating at a really great restaurant and wonder, “Why doesn’t anything I make taste this good?” The answer is simple: finishing salt. Drop these sea salt flakes on everything you serve–yes, even ice cream. Your guests–and taste buds–will thank you.
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Hand Crafted Nut Butter
Big Spoon
The best after-school snack I had growing up was a spoonful of crunchy peanut butter. These artisanal nut butters take that tasty treat into the stratosphere. Chai spice nut butter on a spoon? Yes, please!
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Extra virgin Olive Oil
Brightland
Gifting a nice bottle of wine is so last year. Instead, wrap up a fancy bottle of olive oil. Not only will they be able to enjoy it for longer, but it will also be arguably more delicious in every meal.
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Bistro Tiled Margot Monogram Coaster
Anthropologie
A personalized gift can always be a thoughtful way to share your love and appreciation with your host. These elegant tiled coasters, reminiscent of a Parisian cafe will definitely catch eyes during their next get-together. Making this gift dual-purpose and unique!
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Olous Aromatique Room Spray
Aesop
A woody, aromatic fragrance, with notes of grapefruit, cardamom, and jasmine, this room spray quickly lightens up any room with a few spritzes.
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Fiorella Coupe Glasses
Anthropologie
These aren't your traditional wine glasses. The delicate gold filigree creates an elegant touch on a classic wine glass, perfect for dinner parties or cocktails.
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Herbiflora Cheese Knives
Anthropologie
Another classic hostess gift idea, these ornately crafted serving knives have handles shaped like herbs —rosemary, sage, and thyme—ideal for placing out with a charcuterie or cheese board at the next party.
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Rosemary Beer Bread Mix
Soberdough
Who really has time to feed a sourdough every day? There’s no shame in taking shortcuts, especially when the result is so delicious. This rosemary sourdough beer bread will trick your guests into thinking you spent hours kneading in the kitchen.
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Blue Cheese Stuffed Olives
Green Jay
You don’t have to go to a fancy bar to find a blue cheese stuffed olive in your martini. Have these on hand for deliciously salty drinks. This will leave you time to ask the more important questions: shaken or stirred?
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Hot Honey
Mike’s
I am not exaggerating when I say that this honey is incredible on every food. It elevates a simple cheese and cracker to a gourmet hors d'oeuvres. Put this onto your next charcuterie board to blow all of your guests’ minds.
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Mimosa Sugar Cubes
Teaspressa
Are you the type of host to serve a mimosa with exactly two drops of OJ? Eliminate the middleman with these fruit-flavored sugar cubes.
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Cowboy Cocktail Napkins
Texas Sun Creative
Give the gift of joy to the quirky, eco-friendly host in your life! Nothing screams happiness quite like these adorable embroidered cocktail napkins.
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Christmas Plaid Potholders
Hearth & Hand
Being an A+ hostess is truly all about the details. These beautiful potholders will really put the perfect Martha Stewart touch on anything you pull out of the oven.
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Adjustable Kitchen Apron
Maison d' Hermine
And as a bonus, throw in an apron! Pick your favorite color, pattern, or mix and match with the potholders. It’s a choose-your-own-adventure!
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Baltic Birch Serving Tray
Wolfum
A serving tray is the perfect way to add a fun pop of color to any room. Artfully arrange this tray on the coffee table with some coordinating coasters or carry it out of the kitchen to serve your guests a quick appetizer before dinner.
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Enamel Cast Iron Oven
Le Creuset
The crown jewel of many a kitchen: a Le Creuset enamel cast iron oven. This is much more than just a pot; it’s a thing of true beauty. Use it to cook a hearty soup or simmer cloves and lemon peels to make your whole home smell delicious. (Can you tell how badly I want one this holiday season?)
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Custom Shortbread Cookies
Uncommon Goods
Can’t decide between gifting a sweet treat and a heartfelt thank you? Combine two in one with these customized shortbread cookies! Delicious and touching, all in one.
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Reed Diffuser
Craft & Kin
Reed diffusers are a wonderful hostess gift that smells and looks great at the same time. The design is aesthetically pleasing and can be placed easily in any room the host would like. The simple mini bottle makes it fit with any type of home decor.
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Kitchen Posy Serving Bowl
Turkuaz
Adorned with gorgeous florals, these hand-painted serving bowls are a beautiful addition to any kitchen, perfect for entertaining groups of all sizes.
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Heidi Serving Spoon Set
Anthropologie
Hand-carved from acacia wood, this unique serving set pairs beautifully with any entertaining set for an elegant, upgraded party.
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Brittany Rose Quartz Cheese Knives
Gauri Kohli
For a host or hostess that enjoys the raw, earthiness of crystals and stone, this serving set features three knives to pair with their favorite cheeseboard.
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Mini Truffle Sampler Set
Truffle Hunter
For lovers of sweet or salty, this gift of food can be a real treat! Made from both black and white truffles, this sampler-sized gift set can be used as a topping, glaze, or to give a rich taste to any variety of your favorite dishes (for yourself or to share!)
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Peppermint Bark Squares
Ghirardelli
Another sweet gift idea, peppermint bark is a quintessential holiday treat. Bring to your next holiday party to share with guests, or allow the host to keep it all for themselves.
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‘Fa La La’ Holiday Candle
Sweet Water Decor
There is no better way to show your gratitude to the hostess than by bringing a candle that says exactly that - thank you! With notes of orange, lemon, and lime, this candle is light and fresh, perfect for any season.
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Bamboo Charcuterie Board
Bambüsi
Another item suited for hosts who frequently entertain large groups, a charcuterie board offers a wealth of opportunities for cheese, meats, fruits, and spreads. This bamboo board slides out, for a convenient way to store serving utensils in one spot!
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The Mini Bar: 100 Essential Cocktail Recipes
Editors of Punch
Want craft cocktails but don't know where to begin? This cocktail book is filled with recipe ideas to share with your guests at the next happy hour.
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Graze Charcuterie Cookbook
Suzanne Lenzer
Much like a cocktail book, this charcuterie cookbook can give your host unique and delicious recipe ideas to create a grazing table that is perfect for all guests.
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Porcelain Cupcake & Cake Stand
Tosnail
These stands are anything but ordinary. Use these gold and porcelain serving caddies for individual desserts or appetizers to allow your hosts' guests to sample all the food, without the mess of shared utensils.
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Whiskey Decanter Set
Godinger
Suitable for parties or simply a home bar, this whiskey decanter is a great gift idea for a host who wants to upgrade their whiskey experience and savor every drop.
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Thank You Gift Set
Joy Gift Box
Why not say thank you to your host with a sampler set? This gift set creates a little relaxation with a candle, loose leaf tea, honey, and a pair of cozy socks for when all the guests have left. Excellent for a moment of quiet and zen.
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Hand-Stamped SErving Spoon
The Talking Teaspoon
Does your hostess have a sense of humor? These serving spoons are engraved with funny sayings on vintage spoons, uniquely designed from a small business shop.
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Marble + Wood Footed Serving Dish
Terrain
This large wood and marble serving bowl will be used all year long by your favorite hostess! It is perfect for fresh fruit or a tasty fall-inspired salad. The unique shape makes it a stand-out piece!
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7-Piece Italian Serveware
Mepra
This serving set is versatile and casual. The perfect set of tools for any hostess since it can be used for any get-together they will have during the year. The shiny gold color and slim handles make it sleek and will make any tablescape pop.
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Coffee Cup & Serving Tray Set
Ziruma
Looking for a hostess gift for someone who loves their coffee and dessert together? (Who doesn’t?) This cup and tray set features two stoneware mugs, oak saucers, and walnut spoons to serve—and eat—your favorite after-dinner dessert and drink together!
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Long-Stem Candlesticks
LAVault
For the hostess who loves attention to detail (especially during their at-home soiree), long-stem candlesticks will surely be put to good use. From a spooky Halloween party with their best friends to a more intimate, romantic candlelit dinner with their special someone, the candles will be a memorable gift … and decor!
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Foghat Cocktail Smoker
Thousand Oaks Barrel
For the host or hostess who also enjoys being a mixologist, giving them a handy—and also very chic-looking—cocktail smoker will be useful. This set includes different wood chips to upgrade any cocktail of the evening!
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Table Runner & Placemats
Juvale
Buy your hostess friend a table runner with neutral colors to be used throughout the holiday season—it’s the perfect accent to any existing table decor. Plus, this set comes with matching placemats, meaning that it’s a gift that takes all the stress out of setting the table.
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Candle Holders
Simeitol
Candle holders are a thoughtful hostess gift! This set is made for long-stem candles and the gold glass will make any table pop. If not this size, pick a different set of candle holders, such as those for tealight candles or ones with a wide base.
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Acacia Wood Salad Bowl & Serving Utensil Set
Gibson Home
This is the complete hosting set. Not only does it have a gorgeous acacia serving bowl, but it also comes with matching serving utensils (and under $50!).
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Himalayan Salt Shot Glasses
Uncommon Goods
Special shot glasses are a fun gift for a hostess! These Himalayan salt glasses are perfect for tequila or mezcal, and the sleek design will be a great addition to their collection.
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Oven Mittens & Potholder Set
Whiprint
A thoughtful hostess gift is a personalized set of oven mittens and matching pot holder. Put their name, last name, or whatever nickname you think is appropriate. This gift will make them feel special and will be used while cooking, baking, or preparing any memorable dish for their next get-together!
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Abi Stoneware Dessert Plates
AnthroLiving
Small serving plates are perfect for appetizers and (of course) dessert! This colorful china set is the perfect size and will be a conversation starter at their next gathering!
Bonus: If she loves this pattern, she can build her collection to complete the entire dinnerware set!
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Luxe Martini Glasses
The Tag Store
From Lemon Drops to Cosmopolitans to whatever martini of the evening the hostess decides to serve, these luxe martini glasses will have them looking like a star! This set is already neatly boxed and also comes with a mixing spoon to help make the perfect cocktail.
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Blue Agate Napkin Rings
TatarGem
A little goes a long way and these agate napkin ring holders are simply designed, but will be the talk of the evening! The chic, stone design can be used for any upcoming holiday gatherings or dinner parties your hostess friend already has scheduled!
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Espresso Maker
Zulay
Dessert and coffee anyone? A classic espresso maker is an ideal hostess gift! It can brew a perfect cup of espresso or make an afternoon latte. Either way, this maker can brew up an espresso in less than five minutes, helping them be a speedy host.
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Tea Sampler Set
Tea FOrte
A collection of teas is a perfect hostess gift! It can help them entertain, as well as offer a wide selection of flavors to make sure that there is tea for all of their guests (including themselves). This sampler includes aromatic herbal teas, black teas, and green teas, which are perfect to drink in the morning or at the end of the evening.
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Spanish Wine Glasses
Bormioli Rocco
These cups are such a fun take on classic wine glasses. Their extra minimal design and wide mouth can also be used for non-alcoholic beverages, snacks, ice creams, or other sweet treats!
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Adjustable Thickness Cheese Slicer
Bellemain
A great hostess probably enjoys making a festive charcuterie plate, so this cheese slicer will be more than useful. The tool can perfectly slice hard and soft cheeses to the ideal size and create an A+ presentation.
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Tiered Dessert Tray
Hurzmoro
Presentation matters a lot to a hostess, so help them show off their desserts and other delicious treats neatly with this wooden dessert tray. The design makes it ideal for casual or even more upscale events. Although meant for desserts, your hostess friend can use these trays for any table when they host a potluck!
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Aromatic Hand Soap
Aesop
Giving your hostess friend all-natural aromatic hand soap is another thoughtful gift idea! Pick refreshing scents, such as lavender, eucalyptus, mint, or orange. For all of the guests they invite over, this fragrant gift will be appreciated by the host or hostess.
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Welcome Mat
Doormat Decor
People that like to host are naturally welcoming and generous. A simple welcome mat that matches your friend’s personality will be a gift they’ll always remember, along with their guests!
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Cozy Woven Throw
Anthropologie
Everyone needs to relax and unwind too, so why not buy a large, warm throw with a fun design as a thank you gift? The quality throw can also be used at the end of the evening when everyone is getting cozy on the couch and enjoying an after-dinner treat.
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Glass Carafes
Netany
These glass carafes are perfect for all of the beverages and delicious concoctions that the host or hostess creates! Whether it be a baby shower, bridal shower, or birthday brunch, these simple glass carafes can help them serve refreshing drinks in the best way!
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Fondue Maker
Cuisinart
If your friend really likes to host, they’re probably already thinking of a fondue night. Help them host it with a new fondue maker, ideal for cheeses and—of course!—chocolate. It comes with fondue forks made to put all the fruits, meats, pieces of bread, and other veggies into the pot. This cooking gadget will have them hosting another fun night!
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Kitchen Wall Art
7ArtPrints
Unique, minimalist wall art is a cool, creative gift for your hostess friend! Pick simple prints with wine, food, and cute kitchen accessories to brighten up their home or whatever rooms they host the most in. Paying attention to the details and the host’s style will make this gift unforgettable!
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Bohemian Cushions
HiGOGOGO
A large, comfy pillow that you can throw on the floor and relax! This multifunctional floor pillow is one of the best gifts for a hostess, especially when hosting many guests at their home! It is comfortable for yoga and meditation, too.
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Flower Subscriptions
The Bouqs
A unique gift for the hostess in your life is a new monthly subscription for a fresh flower bouquet delivered to their home regularly. Whether or not they have guests coming, keeping their home bright and floral is a gift they won’t ever get enough of!
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Money Tree
Costa Farms
Buy a live indoor plant to spruce up their living space! It offers gorgeous home decor and creates a tropical, airy vibe. This money plant is fresh from the farm and will be a memorable gift for any occasion!
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Eden Platter
Anthropologie
This floral platter is a large, delicate serving tray that will upgrade any spread. It will be a great addition to any host or hostess serving special meals throughout the year!
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DIY Ceramic Coasters
Haw Haw Toys
Here’s a out-of-the-box crafty gift idea! These blank ceramic coasters can be painted and designed any way they like. They can even stay plain and shiny or painted with color!
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Brass Shamrock For Good Luck
Robert Emmet Co.
This golden shamrock not only brings in good luck, but it doubles as standout home decor! This simply designed shamrock can be hung up all year round in their home. It also includes a traditional Irish home blessing for a more sentimental touch.
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Beginner Crystal Kit
World Incense Store
Believe it or not, crystals can also bring the best energies and vibes to their home! From rose quartz to moonstone and gold tiger eye, this 20-stone set can be decorative, but also protective. Making their home a more calm and peaceful environment is a gift any host will love!
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Digital Picture Frame
AUra
This top-rated digital frame has over 20,000 positive reviews! It can hold thousands of photos with ease by adding them directly from your phone. You can even add a personal message to the screen before giving it to them!
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Outdoor Wine Table
curawood
For the host who loves picnics and small, outdoor soirees, this portable wine table will be put to use all the time! From warm fall days to breezy spring afternoons, this unique foldable table and glass holder will be adored!
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Faux Fur Throw Pillows
Volcanics
Extra fluffy and extra (faux) furry! This soft pillow cover comes in nine different colors to fit their aesthetic!
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Giant Tumble Tower
Swooc
Okay, maybe it isn’t exactly art, but it’s definitely fun! Giant Jenga can be a fun game to play outdoors, but also work as playful and interactive art in the comfort of their home. Playing the game can get loud and messy, but is a memorable gift!
Bonus: This set has blocks with hidden compartments for Jell-O shots (or your favorite surprise!
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Made For Living
Amber Lewis
A hostess can get interior design inspiration with this highly-recommended book! From hundreds of photos with different design styles, this book offers beautiful home decor ideas to inspire them.
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Beatles Vinyl
A timeless, classic vinyl with lifetime music hits. Beatles fan or not, this iconic vinyl can double as art for the eyes and ears. Consider buying a vinyl frame to have your friend hang it somewhere in their home!
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Vogue Cocktails
Henry McNulty
This book is gold and ultra-chic. It not only looks great as a coffee book table with an intriguing cover, but includes over 150 fashionable cocktail recipes for your host to create!
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Trader Joe’s Air Fryer Cookbook
Rita Mock-Pike
This book combines their love of Trader Joe’s with an air fryer! Each of the recipes are easy to follow and also include your favorite TJ products. It has recipes to try out for the holidays, birthdays, or any spontaneous dinners!
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Monkey Cocktail Shaker
Williams Sonoma
Sure, you could choose to gift a plain Boston shaker set, but why blend in when you can stand out? This monkey cocktail shaker is delightfully quirky and will bring a smile to your favorite hostess’ face every time they use it.
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Olive Oil Dispensers
Hearth & Hand
These bottles would be the perfect combo to go with a nice bottle of olive oil or vinegar. Long gone are the days of splashing too much oil into a slice of bread. Drizzle with grace and ease thanks to these handy dispensers.
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Pura Decanting System
Rabbit
Take a bottle of two-buck-Chuck and turn it into at least ten-buck-Chuck with an aerator! I love this option because it does the work while also being a beautiful serving decanter.
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Slate Spoon Rest
Uncommon Goods
Add a little touch of home to your kitchen with these beautiful handcrafted spoon rests. Rep your home state while keeping your countertops clean!
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Olive Oil And Bread Dish
Uncommon GOods
Don’t juggle more dishes than you have to! This handy dipping plate is the perfect size for a few slices of warm, crusty bread and a delicious dipping sauce. I suggest a drizzle of EVOO and a splash of balsamic.
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The Baking Bible
Rose LEvy Beranbaum
Does your friend like to bake and host? This award-winning book is the perfect gift to help them elevate their baked goods and baking skills! It includes recipes, tips, and guides to make the best pastries, pies, cookies, brownies, and other sweet items.
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Beginner Vegan Recipes
Michaela Vais
Why not expand their cookbook collection with tasty vegan recipes? It offers dishes that are raw-cooked, plant-based, and gluten-free. A great host is inclusive, so knowing how to create some delicious, new recipes that everyone can enjoy will be appreciated!
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Tasting The World…One Country At A Time
Nicole J. O’Donnell
Another cookbook that will be a great gift, this international recipe compilation includes authentic dishes from all over the world, including plates from over 190 countries to really expand their hosting menu!
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Classic Movie Wall Art
The Celluloid Android
If your friend loves to host and loves movies, this hip art print can add a personal touch to their living room! It includes all the classics with a retro-VHS design. It will be eye-catching and a definite conversation starter!
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Custom Lyric Print
Mottos Print
This custom art print will highlight their favorite lyrics from one of their favorite songs, with the lyrics to the whole song in smaller text below. This personalized gift isn’t only special for hosts and hostesses, but any big music fans, too!
